Monthly Archives: March 2008

Say My Namesake

Rhett Dawson - rockstarpoetMost of the time I find Facebook to be fairly useless. The only reasons I use it is to keep in touch with people I generally don’t want to see in real life. I don’t mean that in a mean way, but if I saw someone from elementary school on the street I doubt we would have much to say to each other. I do care about them (not enough to really want to be their friends) but I like to keep in touch at an arms length—that arms name is Facebook. Other than that, I use Facebook to keep in touch with people I wouldn’t regularly see, like Brenda, no matter where I was living. Unless I was living in the middle of no where, than I could keep in touch with Brenda because I would be living across the street.

Facebook does come through for me, from time-to-time, to put me in touch with some actually interesting people and things. Like the other day, it put me in touch with someone that I actually do want to be friends but had lost contact over the years. Facebook has come through for me in other ways. Such as the group “All Rhetts Club”, which I am a member of. Let it be known that I have never met another Rhett in my life. I am aware there are many Rhetts. I have just never met one. I think I want to keep it that way, but I don’t know why.

Oh I need to back pedal a little bit. Kimmy might have you believe that I am named after Rhett Butler. However, I am not. The inspiration for my name is from the Saskatchewan Roughrider, from the 70s, Rhett Dawson (pictured above, I believe). Now we can continue.

As it turns out a fellow in Winnipeg, named Rhett, created this group. There is one thing you should never say to a Rhett: Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn. Don’t do it. Ever. I promise you that we all hate it. I do. However, I must say that I assumed that most, if not all, other Rhetts were named after Rhett Butler or some other Rhett. However, we noticed a trend in the All Rhetts Club. There was a majority of us all around the same age, early-mid 20s, and all from the prairies. It quickly came out that we were all, in fact, named after Rhett Dawson.

I don’t know if you find that strange, but I do. One of the few neat things that Facebook has taught me about myself. Actually, it’s probably the only neat thing it’s taught me. We Rhetts are a proud people. I wonder if Mr. Dawson knows of the legacy he has left behind?

I am a Role Model

This is a picture that was brought to me via Facebook and it’s a picture from the first night I met Leah. Although, I think I got confused… anyway, how is this not a good first impression?

Rhett Soveran the first night he met his wife - rockstarpoet

Disaster in Toronto: Snow

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Wet Dog Rug

JD’s terrorist attacks (peeing) have reached a new high. We have raised the terror level from not-cool to may-attempt-to-drown. Leah and I had to bring in some professional help—The Rug Doctor. We began bombardment Tuesday night with chemical agents and continued again last night. The rug in our apartment is about 800 years old and has probably seen too many tenants. Instead of smelling nice after being shampooed the rug just smelled like a wet dog—lovely. However, it no longer smells like JD’s pee. Win some, lose some.

Wiretap: Soulmate

On Sunday, Leah and I caught the tail-end of a program on CBC Radio One that had us laughing so hard after a grueling afternoon at the mall. Leif pointed it out to me again and sent me a link for the whole show. I guess the premise is that you are listening in on stories being unfolded via phone conversations. Pretty good idea, I think. Hence the title Wiretap. Do you have a couple minutes? Give this a listen. It’s totally worth it. But perhaps listen to it somewhere you can laugh comfortably.

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Finding a Rhythm

Zoom ProductionsI always forget that change means that things will change. Or maybe it’s closer to say that I am surprised how much things change. Or maybe I am surprised by changes that affect me that I didn’t anticipate. I do like to anticipate. That’s why I am such a good chess player. The unfortunate thing about my ability to play chess is that I can only play one game without totally burning out my ability to anticipate. I overload my brain, so I never get very far with anticipating.

Generally, it’s my rule of thumb to not blog about work, but this post is really only indirectly related to work. Leaving Marketwire and joining the team at Zoom has made for many changes that I both expected and didn’t expect. I anticipated that leaving MW would lead towards a new rhythm—a new daily schedule that would be a bit more concrete—that would allow for positive habits and routines. This has happened. It is taking longer than I expected to get used to. For instance, I don’t have the same time that I had at MW to blog. I have not found a rhythm at Zoom that allows for me to blog. So it might mean blogging in the evenings or at lunch or before work in the morning.

I am going to put my heart out on the line for a moment. The one thing I didn’t expect is that I miss my friends at Marketwire. A nice and normal person might think this would be an obvious thing to anticipate. However, my problem is that I don’t miss people. It’s not because I don’t care but because I just generally expect that I will see them again—whether or not that is true isn’t important in my head. At least that is how I justify it. I find myself missing the companionship of that place because we all worked so closely together. I am sure as time goes on (and as it has) I will make similar connections. This time inbetween feels a little lonely.

I guess getting settled into new patterns is never easy and things never calm down as fast as I want or expect them too. I wanted to assure you that I haven’t abandoned this place, but that I just haven’t found a home for it in my new routine.